Anonymous
September 10, 2026 at 9:16:28 PM
I wouldn't say I have any evidence, because it all happened on Instagram which he blocked me, and I deleted my account mid mental episode but I can elaborate,
we met on pt and he had me make a Instagram account, and when we added eachother he sent me a picture of his privates, we talked all night up until 5am for me and he knew I was mentally ill and extremely vulnerable because I had told him, he spent the rest of the couple days love bombing me and asking me for noods, I told him I had a bf and he kept insisting, he later had me block the bf everywhere and started dating me, I was in an extremely bad mental state which was something I had made clear to him already, he kept on sending noods and asking for them in return, tricking me into believing he loved me. having me send him videos and pictures of my body. later on I found out from a friend now ex friend I'll call them c, that he had sent them pics of his privates knowing c had a boyfriend irl, he kept flirting with her even when we were dating and asking her for pics in return when she wasn't asking for any of it, he also misgendered me nonstop to his friends, and convinced me I wasn't trans and had me detransiton and even picked out my name and told me to use it. after the first week or so of love bombing me nonstop he would ignore me for hours on end, leave me on read. and lie to me saying he was busy but he was really playing games with his friends, he would only then text me to ask me for nudes, knowing I was in a horrible mental state and extremely vulnerable, on every call he would call me "good girl" or "good boy" (before the detrans) and would try to make me goon and he would touch himself even when I was clearly uncomf, I had a trip to another state a while after and which he didn't text me the whole 24+ hours I was gone although he was online the whole time, I asked him why he didn't message me and he broke up with me on the spot stating I was too clingy. although he never texted first and would ignore me, every conversation was about innapropriate stuff and nothing more, even a simple call would be him trying to make me touch myself for him to hear, after the breakup I had to go to the mental hospital because of how horrible it was and I had self-injured which he knew that I struggled with that. I had talked to c after our breakup and she told me he would flirt with her and send her noods even tho she had a bf, and everytime c would bring me up to him he would pretend he had no idea who I was and ended up getting with and doing the same thing to one of her friends a week or so after the breakup. he would constantly lovebomb me when he wanted noods and then ignore me after he got them, and got me to make him videos that I was really uncomfortable with but did it to make him stop insisting that I make and send it. I had told him multiple times I was really lonely and had no friends and that gave him such a greater advantage to make me do things so he didn't leave me, I even had to force him to say he loved me when he was my bf. I wish I hadn't deleted the Instagram account so I could have screenshots of the shit he did to me, but I don't and it really sucks. I just want you to be aware of the person ur friends with because he hurt me and many more people and its sickening to think people even like being friends with this dude. this happened this year, around may-june if I remember correctly, and he knew I had just gotten back from a 1 month stay at a residential mental hospital mid February. and I'm still not fully healed from the trauma and am now in therapy to help. he went by geo at the time and was geometrical on GitHub, and changed his name and every social media after we broke up to hide himself. he knew he did something really wrong and that shows. he would also view my TikTok account after we broke up and when I confronted him about it on discord he said something, deleted the messages, then blocked me.
Replied on: September 11, 2026 at 12:49:57 PM
ah okay i see. thanks for telling me, ill keep it in mind and see what ill do.
i hope you recover and shit like this doesnt happen to you again
but calling him a 'groomer' is kinda misleading..?